Attempting to not judge is a very difficult thing. "I hate people who judge." Is in itself judging. I have some ideas in the matter, however, I am very guilty of judging others, and I will still do it after this. Hopefully some reflection will be educational at the very least
If someone cuts you off in traffic, do you call them an explitive, or do you think, I hope they are okay?? When Kanye West interrupts a ceremonial occasion, do you think he is just a narcissist, or hope that he has peace in his life one day. When terrorists violently murder someone do you wish to see their heads removed, or do you feel bad that they have been sucked into such a chaotic way of thinking?
See, to not judge is really almost impossible. If you can do the latter, I believe you have come to a peace that we all seek. To show love when threatened, to not feel the need to ever lashout. I am not good at this, and have the opportunity to do better today.
Love- The ability to be wronged, and not retaliate.