At first this advice seemed a little against what I have learned in AA or church, but I realized, it is not. It is just another step forward, looking at things another way. I can put God in that hole, and ask for the ability to gain confidence to do what it is I want and, or need to do. And, I guess, just do it. It is much easier to write it now, than it will be to tackle later. But it was some really great advice. :) thanks Joe.